I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Just thought I’d write a quick update after coming back from Asia. I was actually really sad to leave, which I didn’t expect to happen since I’d kind of been dreading the trip, not knowing what my parents would be like, especially without my sister around. But we actually managed to have totally normal family time, without any emotional breakdowns.
My parents didn’t mention the bf really at all – well Dad never did, Mom did when I told her about the divination (I just realized – I haven’t written about that, have I? Oops! Post coming soon!), but I only mentioned parts about my grandma showing up. Mom just said, “Did you ask if you were going to marry him? You must have talked about relationships!” I didn’t quite know how to tell her that I didn’t specifically ask if we were going to get married, simply because I know it’s going to happen, so I kind of dodged that to the best of my ability.
Other than that, she just sounded resigned when it comes to me and my sister’s relationships, waving her hand and saying “Well, it’s your lives.” I see that as an improvement over being hysterical and emotional and crying and guilt-tripping, so two thumbs up!
While I was in Asia, however, the bf had a phone interview with a company in the city he’s trying to move to, and he says it went really well. I’m trying not to panic, even though I can’t help it! When they asked him when he would be able to start if they were to offer him the job, he told them mid-January due to the holidays and he’s taking off right after Christmas until the 3rd. At least that’s about a month and a half away? We’ll see what happens…