Oh thank the Lord. My sister called me last weekend (I completely forgot to blog about this earlier) since I hadn’t replied to any of her texts. Long story short, we had an alumnae gathering last weekend and she decided she was going to bring her boyfriend. We went to an all-girls, Catholic boarding school, complete with nuns, so I chose not to bring the bf on account of not wanting him to be bored to tears. Plus, that way I could chat to all the faculty/staff/former classmates I wanted to without worrying about him.
My sis and I talked about this a few weeks ago and I gave her my reasoning for not wanting to bring him, and then two weeks ago she texts me telling me I should bring him and that she’ll “explain later”. I was already really annoyed at her telling me what to do so I never replied and she never explained, and then on the day of the event she was texting again telling me “Don’t forget to bring the bf”. Again, I was super annoyed! Why couldn’t she just not tell me what to do and leave me alone?? She sent me a bunch more texts and I didn’t reply so finally she called me and was like “HELLO! You’re alive!”
So I had to tell her my reasons – AGAIN – for not bringing him. She was like “but there’s going to be a presentation and don’t you think it’s good for him to experience the nuns?” (WHAT?) Also, it turns out she didn’t remember that we had a whole conversation about this weeks ago so she apologized for that. And I told her she was being annoying when she asked why I wasn’t replying. I tried to do it as nicely as I could since she is super sensitive, but couldn’t help some of the annoyance. I just said something along the lines of “I didn’t reply because you were annoying me but I didn’t want to hurt your feelings so I just didn’t say anything.”
FINALLY, she said, “I’m sorry. I’m not going to meddle any longer. You are clearly happy and know what you are doing so I won’t think for you anymore.” (No one asked her to “think for me” in the first place!) Thank. The. Lord.
It’s just so irritating when my younger sister is trying to control my life – I have my reasons for doing what I do, I’m not some 15 year old head over heels in love and will do anything for the first guy to come my way! So thank God we can just move on now.